Don’t believe in your friends, don’t even believe in your parents, and NEVER believe in God!

Have faith in them, instead. Faith is HIGHER than belief.

Any idiot with good verbal skills can destroy your belief in a split second; but not your faith.

Belief requires physical evidence of things – and whilst that’s good (to an extent) we have to realize, that knowledge of anything (be it a trust of a person, or within science) is always infinite. So believing this is so, or that is so, will only get you so far (because you can never grasp infinity, at least not this way); faith is the next step up.

Scientific example:

A statement of belief (some people think its actually a fact!): “Water freezes at Zero Degrees Celsius”

Few words that destroy this belief: “If you do not add “time” into the equation, the statement is false, as water also needs some time IN zero degrees Celsius to actually freeze”

Relationship example:

Belief: “Boyfriend see’s his new girl friend hug another man, and tells him she loves him and gives him a gift – boyfriend concludes that she is dishonest with him”

Words that destroy this belief:  It was her brother’s birthday, and she was simply saying how much she loved her brother and giving him a birthday present.

Belief can destroy your relationships exactly in this way; hence, rather than believing in your loved ones, have faith in them instead. Rather than believing in your parents (as they sometimes don’t make sense, have faith in them instead), and rather than believing in God (who may not answer your prayers, for a very good reason which your not aware of) have faith in him instead.

Finding your destiny has been so hyped up, that everyone gets consumed into thinking its something OTHER than their current life situation – funny thing about destiny is, it comes to find you, but its up to you, to take the steps to be your very best.

So the answer to finding your destiny?

If your a daughter, be the best daughter you can be, even if it means bending your back for your parents from time to time – if your a wife, be the best wife you can be – if your in a position of responsibility, be the most responsible you can be – this means squirting out 100% of your focus and body power towards it – what will emerge after doing this, will reveal the next steps you need to take in your life.

This applies towards the people you aren’t too fond off as well as close family and friends – they are there in your life for a reason, and its now your responsibility to deal with it in the BEST way possible.

Warning note: Don’t compare your own life to another’s, even if you seem similar, you are NOT!  Two people on a journey cannot be on the same exact location on a mountain – so comparing is not even a logical thing to do anyway!

I emphasize on the above because I myself, was caught up on comparing people of my age group with myself, and where they are in life – it was the dumbest thing I’ve ever done.

Go ahead, be the best you can be…

Negative mantras are dangerous mantras that are limiting your growth towards everything that you want – wealth, health and relationships!

If your not sure what a mantra is, read “What is a Mantra?” before you continue reading this post.

Being aware of negative mantras defeats them half way, whilst this is not good enough to stop their damage, the real danger of negative mantras is the fact that you THINK they don’t exist, as you are not conscious of them.

Here are a few examples of what negative mantra’s might sound like:

“I’m not good enough”

“I’m no good in numbers”

“Its just not my kind of thing, I’m not that type of person”

“I hate myself”

“I am a loser”

“I can’t do it”

“I should do this, in order to reach here”

“damn it!”

Taking the last example from the list:  Why would you want to “damn” anything in your life? If something goes wrong, wouldn’t you want to heal it? Bless it? Of course you would!

Here is an example of someone suffering from negative mantra’s – I have purposely made it obvious here, but not all negative mantra’s are easy to spot - especially when they are inside your mind, echoing away!

So, how do you remove negative mantras?

The most powerful way to remove negative mantras is as simple as flooding your mind with positive mantras; yes, this also an ancient secret which Kings used, long before NLP or Hypnosis was even invented! A king who knew this secret would hire someone they trusted, to repeat mantras all night long whilst they slept.

The reason you repeat mantras at night during sleep (and on repeat), is because night is yin, sleeping is yin (yin is the soil where you plant your seeds) – it makes yin of yin which makes your mind that many times more “fertile” to sow your seeds of intention.