Don’t believe in your friends, don’t even believe in your parents, and NEVER believe in God!

Have faith in them, instead. Faith is HIGHER than belief.

Any idiot with good verbal skills can destroy your belief in a split second; but not your faith.

Belief requires physical evidence of things – and whilst that’s good (to an extent) we have to realize, that knowledge of anything (be it a trust of a person, or within science) is always infinite. So believing this is so, or that is so, will only get you so far (because you can never grasp infinity, at least not this way); faith is the next step up.

Scientific example:

A statement of belief (some people think its actually a fact!): “Water freezes at Zero Degrees Celsius”

Few words that destroy this belief: “If you do not add “time” into the equation, the statement is false, as water also needs some time IN zero degrees Celsius to actually freeze”

Relationship example:

Belief: “Boyfriend see’s his new girl friend hug another man, and tells him she loves him and gives him a gift – boyfriend concludes that she is dishonest with him”

Words that destroy this belief:  It was her brother’s birthday, and she was simply saying how much she loved her brother and giving him a birthday present.

Belief can destroy your relationships exactly in this way; hence, rather than believing in your loved ones, have faith in them instead. Rather than believing in your parents (as they sometimes don’t make sense, have faith in them instead), and rather than believing in God (who may not answer your prayers, for a very good reason which your not aware of) have faith in him instead.

Finding your destiny has been so hyped up, that everyone gets consumed into thinking its something OTHER than their current life situation – funny thing about destiny is, it comes to find you, but its up to you, to take the steps to be your very best.

So the answer to finding your destiny?

If your a daughter, be the best daughter you can be, even if it means bending your back for your parents from time to time – if your a wife, be the best wife you can be – if your in a position of responsibility, be the most responsible you can be – this means squirting out 100% of your focus and body power towards it – what will emerge after doing this, will reveal the next steps you need to take in your life.

This applies towards the people you aren’t too fond off as well as close family and friends – they are there in your life for a reason, and its now your responsibility to deal with it in the BEST way possible.

Warning note: Don’t compare your own life to another’s, even if you seem similar, you are NOT!  Two people on a journey cannot be on the same exact location on a mountain – so comparing is not even a logical thing to do anyway!

I emphasize on the above because I myself, was caught up on comparing people of my age group with myself, and where they are in life – it was the dumbest thing I’ve ever done.

Go ahead, be the best you can be…

Negative mantras are dangerous mantras that are limiting your growth towards everything that you want – wealth, health and relationships!

If your not sure what a mantra is, read “What is a Mantra?” before you continue reading this post.

Being aware of negative mantras defeats them half way, whilst this is not good enough to stop their damage, the real danger of negative mantras is the fact that you THINK they don’t exist, as you are not conscious of them.

Here are a few examples of what negative mantra’s might sound like:

“I’m not good enough”

“I’m no good in numbers”

“Its just not my kind of thing, I’m not that type of person”

“I hate myself”

“I am a loser”

“I can’t do it”

“I should do this, in order to reach here”

“damn it!”

Taking the last example from the list:  Why would you want to “damn” anything in your life? If something goes wrong, wouldn’t you want to heal it? Bless it? Of course you would!

Here is an example of someone suffering from negative mantra’s – I have purposely made it obvious here, but not all negative mantra’s are easy to spot - especially when they are inside your mind, echoing away!

So, how do you remove negative mantras?

The most powerful way to remove negative mantras is as simple as flooding your mind with positive mantras; yes, this also an ancient secret which Kings used, long before NLP or Hypnosis was even invented! A king who knew this secret would hire someone they trusted, to repeat mantras all night long whilst they slept.

The reason you repeat mantras at night during sleep (and on repeat), is because night is yin, sleeping is yin (yin is the soil where you plant your seeds) – it makes yin of yin which makes your mind that many times more “fertile” to sow your seeds of intention.

A Mantra is any set of words that you intend to become one with, according to your goal; all words have an energetic power to them – in some languages, the mantras become more powerful, as they are the universal meaning of what is being said or repeated.

A western equivalent of a mantra are self affirmations.

The Intention of a mantra is to over flow your mind with thoughts that you want, that any unwanted thoughts are removed. Its like pouring clean water into a glass of water that is contaminated with dirty water – if you pour enough clean water, the over flowing will result in 100% clean water remaining.

“If you can imagine it, it’s already begun to manifest” – Tao of Manifesting

When you are intending, don’t imagine yourself going towards your intentions, think of already being there, the point where your intentions already EXIST.

When you can SEE your intentions…

When you can HEAR your intentions…

When you can SMELL your intentions…

When you can FEEL your intentions…

And when you can TASTE your intentions…

That is when your intentions will manifest…

PS: Beware of Negative Mantra’s that could be stopping you

Its funny how the most powerful things are also the most simple.

To solve a problem in your life, simply observe it; if you can observe your problem, you will see the obstacles within the problem.

If you can observe the obstacles, you will know how to get AROUND it.

An obstacle is like being in a room, and not knowing where the door is; all you have to do is observe.

As you go through life, your goals change accordingly; some of these goals become obsolete as life changes, some goals become so challenging you just give up, and some goals stay with you, your whole life.

Whatever your goals currently may be, there are a ton of how-to books for each kind of goal – how to be rich, how to lose weight, how to be healthy, and even how to lead a successful relationship – this not only spreads your energy in all directions, once you have read the books, you usually have little energy to actually carry out your goals!

Instead of reading dozens of how-to books on reaching your various goals, the ancients studied the underlying principals of the universe; all they needed was one set of simple guiding principals like a formula; which would work regardless of the variables you put in. As you can imagine the immense power this knowledge would give to the knower of these methods, these secrets were only given to people with the highest morals and integrity – and were very closely guarded.

Every ancient mystical tradition carries the same metaphysical secrets of life and success. Learn the root success secrets they have been guarding for thousands of years;  and apply some of the most basic meditation techniques today and you will see immediate changes as soon as you open your eye.

What are those closely guarded secrets to the foundations of Life?

Its called the 7 congregations in Christianity; or the 7 Heavens in Islam; the Jewish Kabbalah calls this secret set of principals the tree of life. The Yogi Baba Gurus of India call this secret the Chakras. Templer knights and the Free Masons call it the holy grail – Taoists and Buddhist masters call it the Tao or Dao.

The seven heavens, or the seven Chakras, start from the lowest chakra (red colour in the picture) and upwards – in reality, there are infinite chakra’s – hence, comparing your level of development with another is pointless; its like saying point A is closer to infinity than point B – the very reason why masters talk about practicing non-Judgement.

Root Chakra - The first Chakra is the Root chakra and it is responsible of releasing all the waste in your life; this applies to physical waste as well as mental waste. If you still resent and hate someone for something they did to you many years ago, your root chakra needs strengthening – did you really think you can move on in life without letting go of the painful memories of the past?

No I don’t mean you need to forget your memories - but when you remember them, it will feel like reading story from a book, rather than feeling emotions of suffering.

The Second Chakra (or the Sex Chakra) is responsible for reproduction; reproducing wealth, health, a child or anything else you need in your life. The logic goes, if you want to have sex but need to go to the bath room (root chakra), you will not be able to have sex, unless you go to the bathroom first. Makes sense right?

The Third Chakra has the energy to store everything that you reproduce in the second chakra – health, wealth, self esteem or anything else.  If you want to be able to hold onto your wealth, you need to keep reproducing this in the second chakra, by working or starting a business of some kind – for example.

The Fourth Chakra has the energy of emotions – if you want to be in a relationship (for example), you need to have a strong first, second and third chakra, after all, how can you find someone to love, if you have low self esteem and cannot support yourself (both belong to lower Chakras)?

Now you know how important finance is, in a relationship! If you are not able to reproduce and keep self esteem (third chakra), how can you possible stay in a relationship without it falling apart? It will be like a top heavy building, that can fall down in the slightest weather change.

The Fifth Chakra (or the Throat Chakra) has the energy for communication and knowledge – have you ever been in a room full of people, and you feel like they never seem to hear you on what you have to say? or feel ignored? This is a sign of your throat chakra needing strengthening - this means, all the chakra’s below it, need strengthening before working on the throat chakra – you do not want to strengthen a higher chakra before making sure the lower ones are strengthened -  it will be like a building with a weak foundation, and can result in a nervous breakdown!

The Fifth chakra comes into light when you have everything in your life that you want – and you start to seek knowledge; this is why financially independent people usually start picking up dance classes and start learning new languages and exploring the world by traveling.

The Sixth chakra (the third eye) is to do with knowing; when your 5th chakra overflows with energy, it energizes the 6th chakra – you will start to see all life as one; you would be able to observe patterns and be able to solve really complex problemsx.

When the sixth chakra overflows with energy, the 7th Chakra starts getting energized, the chakra for divinity – 7 is the total number of steps you need, to reach divinity. I will update more on the sixth and seventh Chakra as I learn more about them from my own spiritual development; I do not want to add already known theory to this, unless I have personal experience of it.

This system can also be used for healing by simply observing the chakra that relates to the organ, and strengthening the chakra’s below it.